In this video I discuss why it’s important to evaluate the language we communicate to ourselves. Are we being our own worst enemies or our own best friends? By substituting “I should” with “I can,” we’re empowering ourselves to take action rather than forcing ourselves to do something rooted in anxiety, expectation and pressure. Today’s #lipstickaffirmation, “It’s Not That *I Should,* It’s That *I Can*” can be found here. Wearing :: Vintage ’60s top // Vintage ’70s bathing suit top // Crystal necklace thanks to Sara of Delancey Dame Vintage, who just recently had chemotherapy for knee cancer and is fully recovered. SHE IS A ROCKSTAR and I send her so much love!